Well I have one of those kind of unlikely set up stories lol. I had actually been in 2 previous relationships that were just awful, the first one was 2.5 years long and slightly abusive to say the least, the second one I had while living in Georgia for a couple of years, it lasted 1.5 years and was simply neglective and pointless. After that relationship I vowed to settle for nothing less then what I felt was right for me. I was single for over a year by choice, there were guys who were interested in dating me but I kept them at a "friends only" distance for fear of being in another long pointless relationship.
Anyways, I moved back to California in November of 2006, I had a bit of a rough start and was still trying to get my life settled back in. In February of 2007 I started working a temporary job at a conference center and eating lunch with my supervisor and her friend from another department. After a couple of weeks the friend from the other department says to me "I know someone you would be perfect for, he works with my husband". I was very skeptical about being set up, I mean I barely knew this girl and she didn't know much about me. But she was persistent in saying I was perfect for this guy but told me very little about him other then "he is a really nice guy and knows how to treat a girl". So after talking about it for a couple of weeks he finally sent me an e-mail introducing himself and telling me a little bit about him. My response e-mail told him I was interested in being friends but whatever happens happens, and asked him to send me a picture. He sent me the crappiest picture possible.. you couldn't even see his face because he was holding his friends newborn and was looking down at her.
Anyways we continued to chat a little bit back and forth through e-mail for a week and finally exchanged phone numbers. On my drive home from work that evening I got up the guts to call him (March 26, 2007 to be exact). Little did I know later that night he would be picking me up and taking me out bowling. I don't know what either of thought of each other at first, he wasn't like anyone else I had dated.. he was a gentlemen and I mean that...he opened doors for me (including the car door.. he still does). I'm really shy when I first meet people, and he probably won't admit it but I think he was being shy too lol.
2 days after that he picked me up and I went to play basketball with him and his friend, it was as if we had already known each other for awhile and hadn't just met the other day. After that we continued to go on dates and spend time together. He would pick me up, take me out, and walk me to my door at the end of the night and give me a hug. It wasn't until a couple weeks of dating that we even kissed. Soon after that we were spending every evening together and going every where together. 3 weeks after dating he took me as his date to his friends wedding that he was a groomsmen in, we weren't even official yet. A week after that he asked me to be his girlfriend.
We've been inseperable ever since, and even though it seems like we've rushed into engagement, it doesn't feel like it and the beginning months of our relationship were strictly emotional (no sex, to be honest he was a virgin). It was a great feeling to be with someone I knew was genuine and not trying to get in my pants.
We ended up moving in together last September, on New Years Eve we celebrated our 9 month anniversay (10 months of knowing each other) and just after midnight he proposed to me. There is no one else in this world I could see myself being with for the rest of my life. He's everything I've ever wanted or needed. (on top of that any man who cooks, cleans, does laundry, and takes out the trash without being asked to do so is a keeper LOL).
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Engaged: January 1, 2008
Getting Married: September 19, 2009