No, not every woman does. My husband couldn't be as involved in planning as he wanted to be because he was in Iraq. But he did what he could via the internet, and we discussed every major decision before finalizing the details.
I don't know any (straight) man who enjoys planning an event, especially a chick event, especially a wedding.
Way to stereotype. Just because you don't know anyone like that doesn't mean they don't exist. For the record, I think pretty much everything wedding-related is unnecessary, overpriced, and silly. Are you going to start questioning my sexuality now?