MOH got DISSED!!!

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Jemma21 Posts : 443 Registered: 12/22/06
MOH got DISSED!!!
Posted: Jul 24, 2007 4:23 PM

Ok, I know this isn't directly wedding related, but I had to share. 

A little backround: my MOH is a bit of a diva at times.  She and her step-sister are my Maid and Matron of Honor.  I grew up with them and have known them forever...we've been like sisters for years.  She is GREAT at party planning and has a great sense of style, but sometimes thinks her opinion is the only one, if you know what I mean.  All her faults aside, I love her to death and she is really a good person.  She's been very unhappy for a while because she really wants to meet "the One" and get married (she pretty much has her wedding planned, just needs a groom) and keeps getting dissed by pretty much every guy she gets involved with.  So when I got engaged, she was happy for me, but jealousy crept up a few times.  Then about 2 months ago, she met this guy on the internet and started dating him.  She wasn't sure about him at first, but decided to spend time with him, getting to know him.  From the beginning he seemed pretty great and did A LOT of wooing....sent her flowers, gave her gifts.  They became pretty inseparable  and he was spending every weekend with her, about an hour from where he lives.  He met everyone, her family and all of our circle of friends.  He attended family functions and was fast becoming part of the family.  He spent a lot of time with her family and her 4 year old nephew was even calling him "Uncle".  Well last friday, he called her crying, saying that he had been having migraines and the doctor did an MRI and found a brain tumor. He was scheduled to have surgery to remove the tumor this past monday.  So my MOH was a nervous wreck all day, shaking and altogether freaking out.  I should mention that her BF told her his mother didn't want her there because they hadn't met yet, but he gave her his mom's cell # so she could get an update....he would have his mom call after he was out of surgery.  He told her he had a 65% chance of surviving the surgery and that he could possibly have brain damage afterwards.  Well on monday morning, he talked to her and said that he was so afraid of dying and that he wanted to live "for them" and all that.  Then she waited all day to hear from his mom how things went.  And waited...and waited.  Finally she called his mom and....guess what?  His mom has never HEARD of her!  A little while later she got a text message from her BF and he says that he has had a girlfriend for 3 years and that he doesn't want her to ever call him again!  DO YOU FRIGGIN BELIEVE THAT CRAP!?!?!?!

 My MOH called me last night in tears because of this.  I feel horrible for her.  She says she feels so stupid because she believed him...but so did everyone else.  We all were hoping this guy was it for her because she seemed so happy.   Also, he told everyone how he had an Ebay store and sold this and that.    FH did a little checking up on his Ebay store....and although he does sell on Ebay (we think that he's selling stolen merchandise because of the price), we discovered he did lie to everyone about several things.   We checked his history and he has bought several very questionable things....lots of police paraphenalia, several sets of handcuffs, police car decals, patches, and real human skulls....yep they sell those on Ebay.  I haven't told my MOH this yet, but the same day he broke the news about the "brain tumor" she also got a call from her bank that a $300 debit had been made from her bank card that she is unaware of.  They said the transaction was done in Maryland...where this guy lives.  Sooooo, she is going to see if they can trace the source of it and if he is the one who did it, she's pressing charges.  It's just a little too coincidental that the transaction was done in MD. 

I just can NOT believe people.  If this guy has had a gf for three years, didn't she find it ODD that he has been gone for the past 6 weekends and July 4th too?   


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Re: MOH got DISSED!!!
Posted: Jul 25, 2007 11:15 AM Go to message in response to: Jemma21

That is absolutely horrible.  What a tool!!! 

I had a bf who told me after 8 months of on and off again dating that he had a gf and he gave me a fictitious name and I told him he was a liar and coward and hung up.  What strange people we have in this world.

I would press charges if I were her.  That way his supposed GF would find out that he is a big BASTARDO.  I am not that vindictive---but he needs to PAY.  :)

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JAllen Posts : 793 Registered: 9/1/06
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Posted: Jul 25, 2007 11:21 AM Go to message in response to: Jemma21

He actually gave her his mom's real number?!  That whole thing is just nuts!!!!  WOW!!!  Sorry for her, that is terrible!

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Jemma21 Posts : 443 Registered: 12/22/06
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Posted: Jul 25, 2007 12:25 PM Go to message in response to: JAllen

Yeah basically this moron is showing his intelligence by giving my MOH his mom's actual cell phone #.  What an idiot!!

 


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magicjenna Posts : 363 Registered: 1/28/07
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Posted: Jul 25, 2007 12:55 PM Go to message in response to: Jemma21

That story is awful! I hope your friend gets her money back. I can't believe he gave her his actual mother's number! Also he can't be that serious with his other girlfriend if he was spending every weekend with your MOH. I would call the mother again and inform her of the scumbag that she raised.

 

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Posted: Jul 25, 2007 4:31 PM Go to message in response to: Jemma21

oh man, not to steal the post but i know someone who hadd an experience with a new girlfriend that was pretty crazy.  once my cousin had a girlfriend who said she was a millionaire from her previous marriage and that she owned hundreds of thousands in jewlery and that her parents also have millions, and that she had two bachelors degrees, a BS and a BFA.  well, she came to visit one day, got drunk, screamed at everyone, and ran outside, down the street, behind a restaurant and dove into a ditch. and then, when she got back from the hospital, locked herself in the bathroom and refused to leave our house.  turns out she was never married, never went to college, her 25,000 dollar ring was from walmart, and her parents didnt have money.  when he broke up with her she tried to jump off the roof of a grocery store, and was then institutionalized.  she had spent like 10,000 of his bank account, which he didnt mind because she was going to move into his house with her millions and all that...  when my cousin called her parents they said they had no idea who he was but apologized and said she has been insane for years.

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LochNessie Posts : 1,631 Registered: 4/2/07
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Posted: Jul 26, 2007 9:29 AM Go to message in response to: Guest

Man, that's awful!  I feel terrible for your MOH.  I really hope she gets her money back and gets him in all kinds of trouble.

As for the crazy lady, that's just awful.  Did your cousin ever see any of his $10K again?

-Ness


 

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Posted: Jul 26, 2007 4:45 PM Go to message in response to: LochNessie

he got his money back because he sold the crap she bought.

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S2BColeman Posts : 60 Registered: 3/10/07
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Posted: Jul 28, 2007 11:41 PM Go to message in response to: Jemma21

hey jemma...

Give us an update if anything comes up...this is all too strange

 

 

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Posted: Jul 30, 2007 7:39 PM Go to message in response to: S2BColeman

Let her know the right one will come in time. Let her know how valuable she is to you. She must be so broken. Make her feel special somehow.

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Jemma21 Posts : 443 Registered: 12/22/06
Re: MOH got DISSED!!!
Posted: Jul 31, 2007 12:29 PM Go to message in response to: S2BColeman

Well no news is good news....she hasn't heard from him, and doesn't want to either.  When she talked to his mom that one time, she was saying that he did have to have brain surgery.  So that may not be a lie, but he still cheated with my friend. 

We're hoping that if he does have brain surgery that somehow the doctor accidentally hits the lobe that controlls sexual function.  LOL

I saw my MOH this past weekend (I live two hours from her) and she's doing alright.  I have been calling and emailing her often.  She seems to be throwing herself into her business a bit more (she owns a bead shop) and she's organizing classes for that, which is good.  Like I said before, she one of those girls who has her wedding all planned and REALLY REALLY wants to get married like yesterday...and right now there are alot of weddings coming up so I feel bad for her.  Her cousin is getting married next week and she had already sent in her response card with the Schmuck as her date.  She's the MOH in my wedding on Oct 13th, and her brother is getting married the week after me. 

 


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LisaN Posts : 285 Registered: 6/13/07
Re: MOH got DISSED!!!
Posted: Jul 31, 2007 5:50 PM Go to message in response to: Jemma21

This is truely an odd story and it makes me sick to think that there are people like this out there. I feel sorry for her and hope that she can stay strong through this, especially when everyone around her is getting married.

~LisaNaomi

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Re: MOH got DISSED!!!
Posted: Aug 1, 2007 12:44 PM Go to message in response to: Jemma21

This whole story just really pisses me off!  I hate to believe that there are actually people out there that are so horrible!  I feel terrible for your MOH, bless her heart for not going to do the brain surgery herself!  :) 

 

This goes without saying but she is better off not hearing from him ever again.  Although I would be the type that would want to give him a piece of my mind.  She def needs to file charges on the prick!


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