Our first date was at a chinese restaurant. So, I saw some pictures other brides did of using a small take-out box, putting a couple fortune cookies in, and wrapping with a ribbon.
I was thinking of getting these chopsticks I found a while back that have little Maneki Neko (lucky cats) scattered on them. Maneki Neko are little lucky Japanese cats, usually calico, that you'll see as figurines in shops and what not, supposed to bring luck and fortune. I'm not completely familiar, but, that's the idea behind them. My grandpa whom passed away a few years ago, gave me a calico cat from his farm for my 16th birthday. She's the center of my universe, I absolutely love her and she's the only "thing" I have to remember him by, other than memory. She brings a lot of happiness and joy to me and it really meant a lot to me when he gave her to me. I still have her, just as rambunctious as ever, hehe. He was also stationed in Okinawa for a while before I was born, so he used to tell me stories of his time there, what saw and stuff. So, thought maybe those would be nice to give as favors; something relating to our first date and to my late grandpa that meant so much to me and left me a little, furry, lucky fortune to cuddle, :).
Do you think that would be OK for favors? It seems like everyone's getting expensive truffles and I want fortune cookies and chopsticks. I just feel like maybe I'm going TOO different and people won't get it or appreciate it? Does that sound weird? I dunno. I want it to be our wedding, but, I want to make sure everyone enjoys it, too.