Well, my FH and his GM's went two weeks ago to get fitted for tuxes, and I trusted them to pick out the style and colors. My dresses are Apple Red from David's Bridal, and I gave them a swatch of the color, which was probably unnecessary seeing as they also went to After Hours.
After looking at the vests in that same red, they thought it looked horrible - two of the guys have sort of barrel chests, and it was honestly overwhelming to have the vests be that bright red. They ended up picking the paisley vest in silver - and I think it compliments the red very nicely, even though my colors are not silver. It's a neutral color - not a bright silver, because of the stitching detail, and it looks lovely. My FH will be wearing a white vest with an ascot which should be interesting ;p
So yeah, I would definitely say go for the silver.
Jamie and Bill
