First off, let me make myself clear that this is NOT causing us problems now. It's just that I think it might be an issue later on.
As of now, my FH and I have a very fulfilling physical relationship. However, he is less, shall we say, inhibited than I am. He's always wanting to try new positions and things like that, and I don't always enjoy it. He doesn't get upset with me when he wants to try something and I don't want to (usually because we've already tried it and I didn't really enjoy it), and he'd never try to force me to do something I don't want to do, but I can tell he gets disappointed when he wants to try a specific position (I'm too much of a prude to go into detail here!
), and I want to go with one of the couple of other positions that I actually enjoy. Also, he wants to try role playing, costumes, and stuff like that, but I just don't think I can get into that. The thought of my FH thinking of someone else (even if it's just me playing a part) when we're having sex really grosses me out.
Does any of you deal with this with your FHs? Should I stand my ground and only go with what I'm comfortable with? Should I be more willing to try new things? Should I wait and see if I become less inhibited later on (FH and I were both virgins before each other)? Do most guys (and girls) like to experiment like my FH does? Any tips on how I can try to enjoy experimenting with my FH?