- Question:
- My wedding dress is an off-white sheath. Can my groom wear a matching tie?
- Answer:
It will be very hard—almost impossible—for him to find a tie in the exact shade. Give him a swatch from your gown so he (or a salesperson) can see the undertones of your dress (every off-white has a general cast) and find a tie that complements them. His best bet is to buy something in ecru, taupe or light gray.
- Must my groom wear a boutonniere?
- Must our fathers and ushers match tux collars?
- What do a military groom and ushers wear?
- Should my groom's tie match my dress?
- Must ushers' tuxes match the groom's exactly?
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