Family, Friends & Guests Etiquette
- Question:
At the engagement party, my cousin Gabriel hooked up with one of the bridesmaids. The problem is that she’s married, and they’re still seeing each other. Do I have a right to tell them to stop?
- Answer:
While Gabe and his babe are definitely behaving badly, it's not your place to play the moral heavy—you don't need to get involved in their affair. You can, however, seat your maid with her husband, and put Gabriel on the opposite side of the room at the reception. If they have any sense of propriety, they'll control themselves.
- This content originally appeared in Brides magazine.
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- How can I uninvite a guest?
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- Must single guests get a date invite?
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- Should we invite a recently divorced couple?
- What should I do about forgotten invites?
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- Should I change my wedding date so that my grandfather can attend?
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- How should we handle complaints about our Friday night wedding?
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