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Should I Order Wedding Favors Per Person or Per Couple?

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With so many options for wedding favors—DIY crafts, edible treats, thoughtful donations—it's easy to forget other details, like how many should be ordered and what that means for your budget. Our wedding etiquette experts are here to answer your wedding favor questions in our daily post.

Should our favors be ordered per person or per couple?

It all depends on the favor. If you're boxing something simple and sweet for guests to take home (M&M's, almonds, or other candies in your wedding colors, for instance), give one package to each guest. If, however, you're distributing a pricier item like silver votive candleholders, you can distribute one to each couple.

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Do I Really Have to Give Wedding Favors?

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What if you can't afford to hand out wedding favors to your guests? Can you scrap the idea altogether, or should you suck it up and use your creative powers to find a cheaper option? Wedding planning can present some genuine dilemmas—that's why our etiquette experts are here to answer your toughest questions.

I really can't afford to give favors. Do you have to have them?

They are by no means mandatory. So if you can't afford something you really like, just let 'em go. Your guests won't even notice. But there are a few wedding-favor ideas that can be pulled off on the cheap. Get two things for the price of one: Your florist can design breakaway flower centerpieces, so each guest can take home a tiny bouquet of flowers or a pretty plant. And some of the most guest-pleasing favors—a sweet little bag of candy, tiny packets of flower seeds—are also some of the least expensive. Lastly, some brides opt for making a donation to their favorite charity, and print up cards that read: "In lieu of a favor, a donation has been made to the ASPCA." You'll help out a good cause with the money spent, and your guests will be touched by your generous spirit.

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10 Ways to Thank Your Bridesmaids for Being Awesome

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Your bridal party has seen it all—from beauty emergencies to bachelorette party blunders—and now's the time to show them just how much you appreciate their support. We rounded up 10 bridesmaid gift ideas that will make good on any pre-wedding meltdown, last minute panic fest or, heavens forbid, unflattering bridesmaid dress that sometimes comes with the territory.

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Bridal Party Gifts That Won't Break The Bank

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Getting your bridesmaids and groomsmen personalized and heartfelt gifts can get pricey—and, honestly, it's often an afterthought. But even if your wedding budget is nearly maxed-out, or your bridal party weighs in at more than five girls and guys a pop, you can still find gifts that are as awesome as your friends were throughout the wedding planning process. (After all, they did sit through countless dress fittings and still found the time to throw the best and baddest bachelorette party in town.) Whether it's monogrammed mugs or super-cool kicks, you must check out these great bridal party gift ideas—all under $100!

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The winner of Brides Live Wedding will receive an amazing registry package from Target! The winning couple will be announced on February 22—voting on all of their wedding details starts February 25 on Facebook.

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Wedding Guest Favor Idea:
Créme Delicious Macaroons

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The brilliant NYC-based confectioners Créme Delicious are back with a sweet treat that is ideal for your wedding reception dessert spread, or a guest favor. What began with wedding cakes and mini cakes has evolved into adorable bite-sized macaroons, all carefully decorated with the bakery's signature brightly-colored design.

The Brides offices got the chance to nibble on these too-pretty-to-eat meringue-based cookies, and the verdict was an overwhelming y-u-m. And with flavors like pink rose, chocolate mocha and lavender honey, you are bound to impress the foody-est of wedding guests.

The Fine Print: A box of a dozen Creme-Macaroons is $48.00. Email concierge@creme-delicious.com for more information or go to Creme-Delicious.com.

—Gray MacDonald

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Holiday Gift Guide: Bridal Party Presents for a Preppy Wedding

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Planning a preppy affair? We found inspired gifts for your entire bridal party. Fun, colorful, and a little retro, these picks are classic with a twist—think a monogrammed box for Mom, silk ruffled scarves for the bridesmaids, and zigzag playing cards for the groomsmen.

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Holiday Gift Guide: Bridal Party Presents for a Romantic Wedding

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Planning a whimsical, bohemian affair with feathery details? We found inspired presents for your entire bridal party. Whether it's mini shea-butter soaps for your guests or a golden tray painted with feathers for your maid of honor, the vibe of these gifts is organic, exotic, and oh-so-pretty.

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5 Welcome Bag Ideas for Destination Weddings

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When planning a destination wedding, you want to paint a scene for your guests—and make them feel welcome in a new, often unfamiliar location. Wedding-favor welcome bags full of local-themed goodies do just that. From Nashville's whiskey and peach preserves to the nautical bracelets and lobster lollipops of Cape Cod, you can personalize your stateside destination wedding with gusto—just don't forget to include a map of the area in your welcome bag; you don't want lost guests wandering around.

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Holiday Gift Guide: Glamorous Gifts for the Bridal Party

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If you're planning a glamorous, high-drama (but not that kind of drama) wedding, we have the perfect gift ideas for your bridal party. From a graphic, chunky rhinestone necklace for your glimmer-loving bridesmaids to the ultimate luxury watch for the beloved best man, these chic, modern ideas will dazzle all the fashionistas on your list. Even if bling isn't your thing—you're looking for something luxurious, but comfortable—help your bridal party relax with some heart slippers by C. Wonder.

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10 Ways to Keep the Kids at Your Wedding Entertained

Wedding Favors for the Kids Table

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Whether or not you choose to invite kids to your wedding is totally up to you, but if you do include the little ones, it's your responsibility to make sure there is plenty of age-appropriate entertainment available. And while creating a goodie bag of kid-friendly wedding favors may not be on the top of your bridal to-do list, making sure the children's table is well-stocked with toys and activities is the only way to prevent a total toddler meltdown. (It's easier for a three year-old to take down a wedding cake than you think!) What's more, you'll earn the gratitude of the youngsters' parents, who, thanks to your carefully curated kiddie setup, might actually get to enjoy the wedding—and eat their entrée while it's still warm.

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Inexpensive Wedding Favors

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When you're buying for 100 or more, the cost of wedding favors can really add up. Check out these fun, affordable parting gifts that are all under $5—a great way to show you care without breaking the bank.

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A Hamptons-Themed Gift Bag for Out-of-Town Guests

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What better way to thank out-of-town guests for making the trek to your wedding than to spoil 'em silly with local goodies and souvenirs? Here, Ami Price of Elizabeth Anne Designs dreams up a welcome bag for weary travelers invited to a destination wedding in the Hamptons. Stash these well-stocked totes in guests' hotel rooms to show how thrilled you are that they made the trip!

1. Canvas "Duck" Bag
$24, Baggu

2. Local Chardonnay 2009
$11 for 375 milliliters, Wölffer Estate Vineyard

3. Salt & Vinegar Potato Chips
$29 for 24 two-ounce bags, North Fork Potato Chips

4. Gold Wedding Sparklers
$14 for 12 packs of six, Onlinefireworks available at Amazon

5. Flat-Printed Custom Weekend Activities Card with Hand-Drawn Map
"A map and weekend itinerary should be punchy and personal. They don't have to match your invitation."
$3,395 for 150 (includes invitations, RSVPs, and envelopes), Mr. Boddington's Studio

6. "Palmer" Sunglasses
"Consider providing cheap shades, bug spray, and/or sunscreen if you're haing an outdoor ceremony on a hot summer day."
$14, Fred Flare

7. Artisanal Chocolate Bars in Hamptons-Themed Watercolor Illustration Wrappers
"Include sweet-and-salty treats for two from a great local spot."
$9 each, Mali B Sweets

8. "Garden Crush" Travel Candle in Poppy Scent
$13, Paddywax

9. Burt's Bees Bug Bit Relief
$5.99, Burt's Bees

10. Note Card with Lined Envelope
"Thank guests for coming the old-fashioned way—with a thoughtful hand-written note."
From $7.50 each, Bell'Invito Stationers

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Baked by Melissa's Mini Cupcakes

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There are few surer ways to a Brides staffer's heart than cupcakes. And when those cupcakes are mini? Game over. Which is why, today, we all swooned over Baked by Melissa, the shop behind the adorable smorgasbord above. Let us assure you that Melissa's bite-sized stuffed cupcakes (which come in flavors like vanilla tie-dye, s'more and cookie dough) are every bit as delicious as they are picturesque. We especially loved Melissa's "mini of the month"—wedding cake! Topped with white chocolate shavings and stuffed with Bavarian cream, these tiny vanilla cakes are a perfect tribute to the traditional tiered wedding cake.

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Craving some of Melissa's tiny treats but don't live in New York? Not a problem. Baked by Melissa delivers nationwide!

—Rachel Allen

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DIY Wedding Favor: S'more Kits

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It's officially summer time and we are rip roarin' ready to get inspired by new and different outdoor wedding ideas from our favorite brides: Y-O-U. It's no big news that we have a bit of a sweet tooth over here at the Brides offices. Which brings us to this mouth-watering double whammy of a guest favor + dessert idea we pinned over at Wedding Bee. The S'more kit. A bar of chocolate, graham cracker and huge, gooey marshmallow are wrapped up with cute packaging thanks to the oh-so-adorable Miss Pickles Press (you've gotta check out their shop out on Etsy). A very sweet way to bring your best friends and family together as your big day comes to a close.

Like it? Pin it! (See the "Pin it" button on the top right of this photo.) Be sure to scour our Pinterest boards for stunning inspiration on everything from your wedding hair and bouquet to easy DIY details and cool guest favors.

—Gray MacDonald

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10 Tips for Creating Amazing Wedding Favors

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Hold off on your bulk order of Jordan almonds. We asked four top event planners for their best tips on creating thoughtful wedding favors your guests will love.

1. Make it personal
Look at your own story and what's special to you. For one formerly Belgian couple that relocated to San Diego, Aleah and Nick Valley, SoCal-based planners, sourced authentic Belgian chocolates and paired them with sweets purchased from the candy shop the coupled visited on their first date.

2. Spotlight your guests
Use favors as a way to get laughs and make the conversation flow over dinner. NYC-based Jennifer Brisman's brides have dug up old photos of each guest to frame and use as escort card-favors.

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Photo: Jasmine Star

3. Match your wedding theme
The Valleys did one San Diego destination wedding for an Arizona couple where favors (above) were air plants, specially packaged so guests were able to fly home with them.

4. Do them yourself
San Diego-based event planner Heather Balliet encourages her clients to "pull on their talents" and crafting skills to create gifts from scratch. Everything from cookies to soap can be made at home, which can be turned into a fun activity with friends, family or your wedding party. One of Balliet's brides prepared homemade granola (featured at top) for each guest's place setting—easy as pie.

5. Don't stop at one

A multipart favor package is the biggest crowd pleaser. For one whiskey-loving couple NYC-based event planner Xochitl Gonzalez wrapped up whiskey stones, a Maker's mark nip and a whiskey-flavored caramel.

6. Spend more, buy less
Choose a favor that guests can enjoy together, suggests Valley. It means you can allot one slightly more expensive favor ($10-$15) to each couple.

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Photo: Brandon Kidd

7. It's all about the packaging
Dress up simple favors, recommends Balliet, who once paired ripe avocados with beautifully designed-and-printed guacamole recipes. Wrap your favors with pretty fabrics, tie with unique ribbons, and finish with graphic gift tags printed by your stationer or designed on a site like My Own Labels.

8. Slip them in out-of-town guest bags
If you're making welcome bags for guests' hotel rooms, allocate your favor budget to the bags' fun accessories instead. For one New Year's wedding, Gonzalez created beach bags (above) stuffed with personalized towels for guests to use during a polar bear plunge the next day.

9. Do a charitable donation instead
Balliet suggests asking your stationer to make a card that explains that a donation has been made on their behalf. Popular choices are the National Arbor Day Foundation, the World Wildlife Foundation and the Red Cross, and the American Cancer society. Some companies like Bella Figura will print charitable donation favor cards for free with a $500 minimum order.

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Photo: Jasmine Star

10. Make them visible
Gifting favors successfully goes beyond thoughtful purchases and pretty packaging. According to the Valleys, how favors are presented is half the battle. They recommend having servers pass out favors on silver trays (above) towards the end of dinner to lend extra importance to the gifts themselves. Another solution is to arrange them artfully on a table near guests' exit, or to ask servers to leave a favor at each guest's place setting during the evening—right around cake-cutting. This way, favors won't be inadvertently left unnoticed, or left behind.

—Arielle Shipper

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