Want Your Husband to Talk Dirty? Here's How to Ask

Talking Dirty in Bed

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Talking about sex is one thing. But asking your husband to, well, get down and dirty with his bedroom chatter can be quite another. So if you've got a hankering for dirty talk when you get down, but don't know how to ask for it, we've got you covered with the help of sex expert Nikki Ransom-Alfred.

"Dirty talk is a great way to add spice to a sex life that needs some excitement or if you're in the mood to be a little naughty and kinky," Ransom-Alfred explains. "Dirty talk will allow you two to be verbal and communicate what sexy things you want to do with to each other. Plus, the dirty talk will boost both of your arousal levels and orgasms."

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Start with a lighthearted conversation that dotes on how great your sex life is now. "Say, 'I really love our sex life, but how about we kink things up a bit?'" suggests Ransom-Alfred. "Or you can tell your husband that it would make you really hot and if he would talk dirty to you in bed."

If you can't bring yourself to verbally ask for a little dirty talk, consider making a demonstration of your desire in the bedroom. "You can get verbal yourself and your husband may just follow suit and talk dirty right back to you!" says Ransom-Alfred. "Also, asking questions such as, 'How do my kisses feel on your neck?' and 'What do you want to do to my body?' can help break the ice."

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