Destination Wedding Shortcuts: How to Drive Down Costs and Avoid Pesky Foreign Marriage Laws

Honeymoons & Destination Weddings
Destination Wedding Costs and Legal Tips

Photo: Kate Headley

Destination weddings are becoming more and more popular for many reasons: They're romantic, fun, and often are the perfect opportunity to make your big day a two-for-one honeymoon special. Whether you want to jet off to wed in Europe and bury your toes in the sand of a Caribbean beach, flying to a foreign land adds an extra layer of special to an already magical day. But, like any added bonus, there are logistics to consider. Picking a venue and vendors abroad can be tricky. And what about transporting your wedding dress? Rife with possible disaster. Most importantly, though, a destination wedding begs two serious questions: Costs and legality.

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As for the costs, people always wonder whether the claim that destination weddings cost less is fact or fiction. According to the Brides American Wedding Study, the average cost is $29,734, while a hometown fete costs $26,737. And that's with fewer guests than a local affair (101 vs. 163). Still, a far-flung bash can be a great excuse to go super-intimate (just friends and immediate family) instead of inviting every Tom, Dick, and third cousin in town—a move guaranteed to save you big.

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Once you've settled on a guest list, you might forget about one very important aspect of your pending nuptials—how to make your "I do" official in a foreign country with foreign laws. You could spend time researching the rules for a legally recognized destination union—or you can make your life easier and get hitched at home before you go. More couples are heading to city hall for a quickie wedding-before-the-wedding because it reduces paperwork, eliminates language-barrier headaches, and minimizes big-day stress. It's especially smart if your location has tons of red tape (like Mexico and Italy) or extreme residency requirements (like France, which requires a 40-day pre-vow stay). Besides, no one has to know you officially became Mr. and Mrs. three days ago. Says Harmony Walton: "Many of the couples I work with don't even tell their families."

—Sarah Z. Wexler

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