How Can I Include My 12-Year-Old Brother in the Wedding Party?


Where does a pre-teen brother fit into the grand scheme of bridesmaids, groomsmen, flower girls, and ring bearers? Our wedding etiquette experts are here to answer your wedding party questions in our daily post.

How can I include my 12-year-old brother in the wedding party?

He can be a junior usher, who is customarily responsible for distributing wedding programs and seating guests as they arrive. But you needn't be tied to tradition, and can create a whole new role for your younger brother. How about honorary head usher, informal videographer or first reader? Youre limited only by your own creativity.

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