How Young Is Too Young for a
Flower Girl or Ring Bearer?

Etiquette, Kids
flower girl

Photo: KT Merry

Does your sister have to be your maid of honor? Can you ask your bridesmaids to change their appearance? We know choosing and managing a wedding party can be a confusing process. That's why we're here to answer all of your wedding-party etiquette questions!

Are there any age limitations for ring bearers and flower girls?

The age range for flower girls and ring bearers is four to eight years old. Children younger than four are generally much too unpredictable to walk unescorted; those older than eight frequently feel the role is too babyish.

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