When did you announce your engagement?

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This week in the forums our members are talking about their pending engagements.

Anxiousfloridagirl explains her predicament: "Last night, my FH and I talked about when we wanted to get married... He seemed very interested and excited about setting a date. My question is, he hasn't officially proposed, so when do I tell my mother?"

JennHugsJake gave some advice, "Wait till the ring is on your finger. I let it slip that we were about to get engaged before we got engaged, and when we did get engaged some of the excitement wasn't there."

Auntofthebride offered a few more words of wisdom, "Engagement starts as a private understanding between the couple, then move to a public announcement and active planning. You are at that private understanding stage. So, keep it under your hat for a while."

Did you wait for a ring to announce your engagement or did you tell a your friends and family about your marriage plans right away? What would you do in this situation?

Click here to continue the discussion in the forums or click here to browse all forum topics.

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