Real Weddings

A Cheery Wedding with a Turquoise, Orange and Yellow Color Palette

"Aaron asked me out in the most romantic way possible," Christina pretends to brag, then deadpans, "via text message." Yet despite a less-than-script-worthy start, the Connecticut couple took off and two years later, Aaron proposed.

Surrounded by friends and family at a surprise birthday party for the soon-to-be bride, Aaron dropped to one knee and presented Christina with a square-cut diamond ring. "Aaron and I had the tightest embrace ever," Christina recalls, until an excited Aaron attempted to slip the ring on her finger and instead accidentally tossed the diamond onto an outdoor patio, complete with cracks. "After a few seconds of panic, one of my girlfriends found the ring and I was finally able to wear it as an officially engaged woman," Christina laughs.

Working with wedding planner Ambiance Luxe Wedding Designs, Christina and Aaron crafted a quirky September affair held in rustic Deep River. With vibrant turquoise accents offsetting an otherwise neutral palette, the couple's wedding took on an atmosphere that Christina describes as "light, fun and lively."

Christina spotted her Melissa Sweet gown online—and was crushed when she discovered the dress had been discontinued. Yet, by what the bride describes as a "stroke of luck," she uncovered the sweet sheath at a sample sale and snatched it up. "Once I put it on, it was love. We purchased it on the spot," Christina says. "It's so true when they say that it's just a feeling. When you know, you know."

Christina adored the gown's silk organza overlay, accented with delicate polka dots and tied with a matching sash. "I loved how it was so simple, yet had these amazing and fun details that made it so romantic," she says. Plus, "it hugged my curves in all the right places, but was comfortable at the same time. Comfort is key."

A champagne-colored faux floral hairpiece by Mignonne Handmade softened Christina's half-up-half-down hairstyle.

Kendra Scott's chunky turquoise necklace accentuated Christina's collarbone. "I tend to gravitate towards a statement piece here and there, so decided to go with a couple of accessories to make my overall look pop," Christina explains.

Aaron and his groomsmen donned slim-fit ties by Forage Haberdashery, which crafted the neckpieces from limited-edition blue and orange fabric.

Bridesmaids selected from two knee-length Ivy & Aster dresses in hues of rosemary and grey. "I loved the fun and flirty feel of these dresses," the bride says.

Florists wrapped bright orange ranunculus, white anemones, succulents and a few sprigs of leafy green filler with white lace to create Christina's bouquet. "Just For You Floral Design Studio translated our vision into exactly what we were looking for," the bride gushes.

Dusty miller, wide green leaves and Billy Bobs were mixed with berries and small bright flowers for the groom and groomsmen's boutonnieres. "We loved how non-traditional these were and how each one was different from the next," Christina says.

Boutonnieres were pinned to the lapels of light gray suits, which the men picked out at : Macy's.

Christina and Aaron exchanged vows on the grounds of Mount Saint John, a high school for at-risk boys set on 80 acres of rustic Connecticut real estate. "It had a wonderful vintage feeling," Christina says of the space, "with the actual school serving as a backdrop during the ceremony."

"Short, sweet and non-traditional," the bride says, Christina and Aaron's wedding ceremony included a reading from I Corinthians and humorous dialogue from their officiant—a cousin whom the couple convinced to become a justice of the peace especially for the occasion.

While the couple purposefully kept the ceremony space sparse, "the one thing we did splurge on were two large, beautiful arrangements that stood on each side of the front of the aisle," Christina says.

Trolleys transported guests from the school grounds and to The Lace Factory, where the couple would host their indoor dinner reception. "We were looking for something non-traditional, something that was an arms length away from the typical hotel ballroom," Christina says. Constructed in 1875, the former shipbuilding-yard-turned-event-center combined the historical character and modern amenities the couple craved. "We loved its exposed brick walls and beams, the large bright windows that extended across every wall, the vintage bar," Christina explains.

Christina and Aaron "loved the raw space of our reception venue," so they "tried to use details that would accentuate the space rather than cover what was already there," the bride says. The couple's color palette shown through in bright blue Chiavari chairs and vibrant orange flower arrangements—a nice "pop here and there," Christina describes.

Sheer white swag hung from the building's exposed beams, flanked by sparkling twinkle lights, "adding a touch of softness and elegance to the space," the bride says.

"My absolute favorite?" Christina says. "Two funky, ocean blue chandeliers were hung overhead just below the swags on each side of the room. Love, love, loved these."

A mixture of orange, coral and yellow blooms filled pedestal and bowl-shaped pots, creating a mish-mash of tablescapes across the entire dining room. "We loved how no two tables were alike," Christina says.

Lace overlays laid across champagne linens paid homage to The Lace Factory's name, Christina said. Blue and mercury glass candle holders were scattered across each tabletop.

Neutral-toned tented cards bore table names and numbers.

The couple left a heartfelt thank you to guests at each place setting. The blue-striped Chevron patterned cards were designed by Patti Murphy Designs.

Personalized pint glasses from online retailer Grandstand served as the couple's favors.

Dubbing him their "flower boy," the couple asked a young man to carry a turquoise wood sign that read Here Comes The Bride down the aisle. "As we exited, it turned around to say, 'Hooray!'" Christina says.

Because she wanted to "cut a rug," Christina slipped into a short-and-sassy Ivy & Aster dress during the reception. "I'm still waiting for an occasion where I can recycle this dress," Christina says. "I absolutely love it."

Christina's advice to other couples? "Forget the stress," she says. "Enjoy every second, and be kind along the way. And to remember to stop, take a breath and smell the roses. I found that everything went by much too quickly."

—Jillian Kramer

Wedding Planner: Ambiance Luxe Wedding Designs || Ceremony Venue: Mount Saint John || Reception Venue: The Lace Factory || Bride's Wedding Dress: Melissa Sweet from The White Dress By The Shore || Bride's Shoes: Steve Madden and Ashley Brooks Designs || Bride's Accessories: Kendra Scott and Mignonne Handmade || Bride's Wedding Ring: M.K. Winston Jewelers || Groom's Tux: Macy's || Groom's Wedding Ring: M.K. Winston Jewelers || Bridesmaids' Dresses: Ivy & Aster from The White Dress By The Shore || Groomsmen Attire: Macy's || Mother of the Bride's Dress: Macy's || Florist: Just For You Floral Design Studio || Caterer: Cloud Nine Catering || Stationery: Patti Murphy Designs || Cake Baker: Cloud Nine Catering || Favors: Grandstand || Rentals: Ryan Designs and Rentals Unlimited || Entertainment: Power Station Events || Photography: Michelle Gardella

Flowers & Decor

A Pink-and-Orange Bridesmaids' Bouquet

Pink and orange bridesmaids' bouquet by Loretta Flower

Photo: Lindsey Thorne Photography

Mary Kathryn Paynter, the stylist behind Loretta Flower in Austin, Texas, created this vivid bridesmaids' posy for a bride getting married at Laguna Gloria, a historic home that sits on Lake Austin. "Her wedding was very formal, but the color palette was inspired by monarch butterflies, so it was still playful." This slightly wild but still sophisticated look (achieved here with peonies, cockscombs, ranunculus, amaranths, seeded eucalyptus, and spray roses) is representative of what brides are into now—bouquets that aren't too uniform, tight, or predictable. "It's a sign of the flood of creativity that has overtaken the wedding industry since the dawn of the blogosphere," explains Paynter. (Approximate cost, $100)

—Denise Penny Shepard

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Wedding Dresses

A Voluminous Modern Wedding Dress by Karen Willis

Karen Willis Spring 2014 Dress

Photo: Thomas Iannaccone

If you envision yourself in a ball gown, but worry it'll weigh you down, this organza Karen Willis wedding dress should do the trick. The light-as-air fabric gives it an ethereal feel, while the sharp sweetheart neckline makes for a modern finish. For those set on a full skirt, the layers (and layers) of soft fabric should satisfy your need for volume. Ideal for a romantic twilight summer celebration, this dreamy dress will be dancing around in our dreams for weeks to come.

View the entire Karen Willis and other looks from Bridal Fashion Week.

—Lauren Frankfort

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Etiquette

One of My Close Friends RSVPed "No" to My Wedding. Can I Confront Her?

Wedding RSVP no etiquette

Photo: Getty Images

Sending out your wedding invitations opens a veritable Pandora's box of etiquette issues. Late responses, no responses, and mailbox mixups abound, and when close family and friends mysteriously RSVP no, feelings can get in the way. Still, is it ever appropriate to confront these guests? Our wedding etiquette experts are here to answer your RSVP questions in our daily post.

Can I ask my close friend why she RSVPed "No"?

Not if you phrase it diplomatically. But her reason might be embarrassing—perhaps she's having financial trouble and can't afford a gift. If you want to reach out to her, send a short e-mail (a phone call might make her feel put on the spot) saying you're bummed she'll miss your wedding but that when you're back from the honeymoon you'd love to grab coffee and catch up. This will give her the chance to reveal her reason without being guilt-tripped by you.

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PinkClouds.com to Sell Vintage Wedding Dresses Starting May 21!

Vintage Wedding Dresses from PinkClouds

Photo: Courtesy of PinkClouds

Vintage-loving brides rejoice! Online vintage shop PinkClouds is launching a curated bridal section on May 21. Offering a stunning selection of dresses that span the decades, you're sure to find a gorgeous one-of-a-kind gown that speaks to your personal wedding style. "Depending on the era and the silhouette, brides can achieve a variety of looks," said Jennifer Collins, founder of PinkClouds. "If you want a flowy look, try dresses from the 1970s. If you're looking for something more body conscious, try a bias-cut gown from the 1930's. That's the beauty of vintage."

From her early days in her mother's closet admiring her "breathtaking" pieces from the 70s and 80s (including a gold and opal ring given to her then mother when she was in her 20s, that Collins wears today) to her college days spent scouring London's Portobello Road for the perfect vintage find, Collins has always been motivated by the thrill of the sartorial chase. After starting her career in luxury retail consulting for major fashion brands, the vintage collector felt the natural next step was to launch her own vintage shopping site.

Vintage Wedding Dresses from PinkClouds

Photo: Courtesy of PinkClouds

The mission of PinkClouds is to "bring back inspiration and the feeling of discovery to the shopping experience," which Collins accomplishes by offering one-of-a-kind dresses and jewels with a unique history. After three years of success in vintage ready-to-wear, PinkClouds Bridal will go live next week on May 21. "We started with a focused collection of dresses that we felt spoke to a variety of brides. Vintage shopping is such a personal and emotional buying experience, and there is no better time to have a one-of-a-kind gown then on your wedding day."

Vintage Wedding Jewelry from PinkClouds

Photo: Courtesy of PinkClouds

Tips for pulling off a vintage wedding dress? "It is definitely all about the styling. I would say the more retro your dress feels, the more modern you should be with your hair and accessories. Pair your vintage gown with some extravagant Jimmy Choos or Manolos. Since most bridal wear is vintage inspired as it is, you have to be conscious not to look like you are wearing your grandmother's dress."

Asked about her own wedding day look, Collins isn't entirely sure (though she counts jewelry designer Pamela Love's bohemian wedding in Montauk and all 8 of Elizabeth Taylor's gowns as inspiration)—but she's confident that the look will include a vintage corset, with lace details that are "just impeccable," and vintage jewelry, "that's a definite!"

—Catherine Smith

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Wedding News

The Best Wedding Blogs of the Week

diy peony floral arrangement

Photo: Courtesy of Somewhere Splendid

Every week we round up some of our favorite blog posts from around the web.

This petite floral arrangement costs around $20. We're not kidding! —Somewhere Splendid

Is it tacky to toss your garter at your wedding? Our etiquette expert weighs in on the popular tradition. —Brides.com

Care to see how bridesmaid dresses have evolved over the past century? Let's just say we've come a long way since shoulder pads and wide-brim hats. —PopSugar

Even if you have a ring on your finger, this slideshow of our favorite engagement rings with pave settings is highly addictive. It's nearly impossible to pick a favorite piece! —Brides.com

This couple took their engagement shoot to new heights. —Brooklyn Bride

We found the best places to honeymoon in the US if you're into wine tasting, adventure travel, surf, sand and sun or all of the above. —Brides.com

This couple, who met on Match.com, let their bridal party pick their own wedding attire. Talk about leap of faith! —Merci New York

To celebrate the premiere of The Great Gatsby, here is a roundup of Art Deco wedding stationery. —Oh So Beautiful Paper

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Wedding Dresses

A Lace, Three-Quarter Sleeve Wedding Dress with Detachable Skirt by Marchesa

Marchesa "Madison" Wedding Dress from Spring 2014

Photo: George Chinsee

This stunning Marchesa wedding dress mixes some of my favorite trends: three-quarter length sleeves, loads of lovely lace, and a fresh, high-drama silhouette. I'm loving the voluminous, silk taffeta skirt—it's statement-making, very Victorian, and perfect for making a grand entrance as you down the aisle. Then, when it's time to dance—presto, it's detachable.

View the entire Marchesa 2014 collection and other looks from Bridal Fashion Week.

—Jacqueline Gifford

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Etiquette

I Think the Garter Toss is Tacky. Do I Have to Do It?

Wedding garter toss etiquette

Photo: M&A Photography

There are countless wedding traditions to pick from: feeding each other wedding cake, incorporating something blue, and, of course, donning a white wedding dress. These rules have relaxed over time (hello, pink wedding dresses!), but what happens when a couple wants to skip a tradition altogether? Our etiquette experts are here to answer your questions about wedding traditions in our daily post.

I think the garter toss is tacky, but everyone says it's a time-honored tradition and we should include it in our reception. Do we have to do it, or is there an alternative?

Yes, the garter toss is time-honored—it got its start in medieval times. Guests would rip and tear at the bride's clothes to snag a piece of the fabric, which was thought to bring them good luck. Often, the bride would strip off her stockings and garters to throw to the pack so she could escape. (Yikes!) Fortunately, guests have become more civilized through the centuries. Now, the groom strips the garter off the bride to campy stripper music, then tosses it into a pack of salivating unmarried men.

The garter tradition has (thankfully) started to lose favor recently. If you prefer to ax this ritual from your reception repertoire, but still want to do something, you can opt for one of these less titillating alternatives. Make the bouquet toss co-ed. Watch all your single friends battle it out for the big prize. Give the bouquet to your favorite person. Honor your parents or his, a special grandmother or a friend who was such a big help during the wedding planning. Hand it over to the longest-married couple. Have your DJ or band play a special "marrieds-only" song. The band leader or DJ will first ask those married eight hours or less to leave the floor (that means you), then five years or less, ten years or less and so on, until there's one couple left standing. They get the prize—your flowers.

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Bridesmaids

A One-Shoulder Bridesmaid Dress with a Modern Floral Print by
Jenny Yoo

Jenny Yoo one-shoulder floral bridesmaid dress

Photo: Courtesy of Jenny Yoo

Putting your gals in floral gowns doesn't necessarily require you to plan a girly, uber-romantic wedding celebration. The soft silhouette and flirty, ruffled neckline of this Jenny Yoo one-shoulder bridesmaid dress is offset by a bold, geometric floral print in a cool color combo. A shift like this will appease both your fashion-forward and hopeless romantic 'maids. Better yet, your girls can just as easily wear this little number with a cropped denim jacket as they could with sky-high heels at another spring or summer celebration.

"Lulu" knee-length bridesmaid dress with an asymmetrical shoulder with a soft flutter drape, $265, Jenny Yoo

—Lauren Frankfort

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Wedding Dresses

A Modern, Convertible Two-Piece Wedding Dress by Rivini

Rivini "Martinique" Wedding Dress from Spring 2014

Photo: Rodin Banica

This two-piece wedding dress from Rivini marries my two favorite aesthetics: feminine and modern. I love the scalloped lace neckline and short-sleeves (which create an instant slimming effect for your arms), and the architectural tiered overskirt is perfectly cinched at the waist to cover up any flaws you think you have. Plus, you can show off a bit of leg and show-stopping wedding-day shoes! But the best part? Take off the overskirt for your reception, and you'll see that the lace top turns into a mini dress made for dancing the night away!

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—Beth Swanson

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Do I Have to Ask My Sister to Be My Maid of Honor?

Sister Maid of Honor Etiquette

Photo: Tangled Lilac Photography

Rather than ask close friends to battle it out for the coveted role, the bride's sister is often a natural choice for maid of honor—but what if she's not the best choice? Our wedding etiquette experts are here to answer your bridal party questions in our daily post.

Do I have to ask my sister to be my maid of honor?

There is no rule saying you must ask your sister to be your matron of honor. Rather, you should ask the person you feel most deserves the role.

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Wedding News

Join: Live Facebook Chat with Event Designer Annie Lee

annie lee wedding planner

Photo: Courtesy of Annie Lee

We are beyond lucky to have Annie Lee, a leading New York City wedding and event planner, join us tomorrow for a Facebook chat like none other. Annie is widely recognized for her contemporary yet classic approach to hip, urban weddings. When asked to dream up her own fantasy wedding day, Annie names The Venice Opera House as her dream venue, sea urchin, squid, cod roe, and seaweed over spaghetti as her desired menu and a "nonwhite" wedding dress as her signature look.

Join us tomorrow, Thursday, May 16th from 4-5 p.m. over on the Brides' Facebook wall for a fun, lively and totally inspiring chat where you can ask Annie questions about your own fantasy-in-the-making wedding day.


The Fine Print:

Who: Annie Lee, wedding planner extraordinaire
Where: Brides' Facebook Wall
Date: Thursday, May 16th
Time: 4:00-5:00 p.m. EST
Hashtag: #BridesChat

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Flowers & Decor

A Laid-Back Late-Summer Bouquet

Rustic late summer bouquet by Cedarwood Events

Photo: Austin Gros Photography

This free-form bouquet was created by the folks at Nashville-based event-design company Cedarwood Weddings. (FYI: They have a fab barn on a 50-acre nature preserve, for those of you in the area.) What makes this a modern bouquet? For starters, the fact that they've blended what are considered to be more exotic flowers like mokara orchids with garden-variety flowers like zinnias and herbs, and that they've incorporated so many different blooms in a single arrangement. The 10 flowers used here (cream stock, wine dahlias, tulips, mokara orchids, freesia, ranunculus, roses, spray roses, zinnias, and craspedia) are in season in late summer. (Approximate cost, $175)

—Denise Penny Shepard

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Invites & Stationery

Oscar de la Renta's Collaboration with Paperless Post—Get Your Wedding Invitations Straight Off the Runway!

Oscar de la Renta for Paperless Post wedding invitation

eStationer Paperless Post has just unveiled a gorgeous collaboration with Oscar de la Renta. Inspired by runway looks and fabric samples from the atelier, this line of digital and fine printed stationery (engraved and letterpress options available) channels the designer's colorful collections and vibrant entertaining style. Send a digital bridal shower invite inspired by Mr. de la Renta's fuchsia and gold brocade gown, and follow it up a traditional wedding invitation adorned with the same hydrangea lace seen in his latest bridal collection. The collaboration includes over 30 original wedding invitation styles, and will expand into entertaining, children's and personal stationery later this year. Check out some of the stylish designer stationery, below!

Oscar de la Renta for Paperless Post wedding invitation

Oscar de la Renta for Paperless Post wedding invitation

Oscar de la Renta for Paperless Post wedding invitation

Oscar de la Renta for Paperless Post wedding invitation

Oscar de la Renta for Paperless Post wedding invitation

Oscar de la Renta for Paperless Post wedding invitation

Photo: Courtesy of Oscar de la Renta

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—Catherine Smith

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Wedding Dresses

An Ethereal Silk Chiffon Wedding Dress by Christos

Christos wedding dress spring 2014 collection

Photo: John Aquino

There was something effortlessly ethereal about Christos' Spring 2014 wedding dress collection. Our favorite dress, a silk chiffon gown with a hand-embroidered floral bateau illusion neckline, floated down the runway with grace and ease. The lightweight fabric makes it perfect for a ceremony in the sand while the floral appliqués give it a pop of personality. Any bride would beam in this goddess-worthy creation.

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—Lauren Frankfort

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